rants and ramblings

little things counts

Nel and I chatted and I can say that he is happy and truly, madly in love. See? He is a living proof that a perfect partner is made for you. Good thing he found Sophia. His perfect match. She makes him complete and incredibly happy. Even though I don't get to see Nel's face, I can sense that he is beaming -- you know? Glowing and all. :) Ok… our talk revolved around, his love of his life.. Sometimes I ask questions [ I do love psychoanalyzing people] and sometimes he just talk. Somehow, this particular talk that we had was different. Why? Cause I learned something. It's an affirmation that little things count. Little gestures count a lot. It made me realize that Grand Gestures really come from little ones. A gift [whatever it is, regardless of its value] when it is given, was due to the fact that he remembers you. Saying thank you.. And yes, even saying the words "I love you" first. They count a lot. Cause when you are alone in your bed or just day dreaming you end up remembering not the gifts, that stuff that was given to you but how he took care of you, the words whispered in your ears, the affection shared , the way he made you special, the way that he makes you laugh and the way he treated you.

I guess that's why I have fallen for Joey and he for me…[now that makes sense to me, does it make sense to you?]. Spending time… exerting all efforts to be together. Sharing of the mind, feeling the same intensity of emotions and having fun with each other's company. Joey is very appreciative. He says the right things at the right time-- every frigging moment that we spend together. He is a love person… he falls in love easily and stays in love for the longest time. [So very like me] He is not scared of saying what he feels [ok, two defenses down-- one more wall and I'm defeated] He loves photography, target shooting, and arts! [Lord, if he is the one.. don't give me a sign! Pls.!?]

It is also important that you two talk a lot …and I mean talk. Sharing of your mind and your heart [Joey and I do this all the time! Yey! Yey!] We talk about lots of things.. Passion, love and life. We also flirt sometimes. Hehehe but of course, where is all the fun without it? Enjoy love -- its fire, its passion and all the things that comes with it… While it lasts...