iLuvU, love me?
Love is such a strong word. It can make you smile, cry and give you goosebumps. Isn't it nice hearing those words from the people that you love? It’s a confirmation of what he/she feels for you. Love has been defined as strong affection; attraction based on sexual desire, an unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for others. For me… love is certainly an affection, love is when you care enough for the person that all that matters to you is her/his happiness. His need is your main concern, love is trust, honesty, happiness, respect and concern.
It can change a life. It can be used as a gadget, by those selfish people, luring innocent victims into their trap. Making believe that they do love that person when in fact they don't. It's what you call emotional blackmail.. you know, those guys saying.."if you love me, you'll prove it" or "I love you…that's why we are going to do this" thingies ..It's used to lure someone to bed. Why the hell can't they just say-- I LUST YOU? or I DESIRE YOU?? I don't often say the phrase "iluvyah" for the reason that… sometimes it's said often enough that it lost its meaning. It's like "hello" & "hi", one can say it without meaning it. Whenever and if ever I would say those 3 words rest assured …I mean it. Although sometimes there are things better left unsaid, for in that way-- it would mean more.
Let's just mean what we say, say what we mean. So that we would cut the crap out and lead happy lives.
posted by jaded fool @ 2:23 AM
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